Ukubaleka luqheliselo olulula kakhulu, kwaye abantu banokutya amandla amaninzi emizimba yabo ngokubaleka, nto leyo enokusinceda sifezekise usukelo lokugqibela lokomelela kunye nokunciphisa umzimba. Kodwa kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kwezi nkcukacha xa sibaleka, kwaye kuphela xa sinikela ingqalelo kwezi nkcukacha apho kuya kuba neenzuzo ezinkulu emzimbeni wethu. Makhe sijonge ezi nkcukacha malunga nokubaleka kunye!
1. Funda ukuzithiba kwaye uhlakulele imikhwa yokuphila enempilo. Cwangcisa ishedyuli enempilo, yenza ishedyuli enempilo, ulandele isicwangciso, kwaye unikele ingqalelo ekutyeni okunempilo. Ukongeza, kuyimfuneko ukuyeka ukuhlakulela imikhwa engafanelekanga, ukukhusela impilo yakho, kunye nokubeka impilo phambili.
2. Ukubaleka, njengeminye imidlalo, akufuneki kube kugqithisile. Ukuzilolonga kakhulu emzimbeni kubalulekile, njengoko kufuneka kubekho ukuqhubela phambili ukuya kwinqanaba lesi-7. Ngaphambi kokubaleka, kuyimfuneko ukwenza umthambo wokuzifudumeza ukuze umzimba ukwazi ukuziqhelanisa namandla asemva; Ngexesha lokubaleka, kubalulekile ukuzola ukuphefumla kwakho kwaye uphephe ubunzima bokuphefumla; Emva kokubaleka, zama ukuhamba kancinci ixesha elithile ngaphandle kokuma ngequbuliso, uvumela umzimba wakho ukuba uhlale ixesha elide.
3. Nika ingqalelo kwimeko yakho yomzimba, lungiselela isicwangciso sokubaleka esifanelekileyo, kwaye uphephe ukuncama ubuso okanye ukubandezeleka. Kukho umda othile ekusebenzeni komzimba womntu, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ungavumeli izinto ezincinci zingabonwa. Xa uziva ungakhululekanga, ungazinyanzeli ukuba uxhase, kwaye qiniseka ukuba wazisa abasebenzi abafanelekileyo kwaye ucele uncedo lwabo.
4. Emva kokuba imisebenzi yomzimba inciphile, ungaze uqhubeke ubaleka. Nokuba kukubaleka ngexesha lokhuphiswano okanye ukuzilolonga, ukubaleka nokuba umzimba wakho ubuthathaka kufana nokucela ingxaki kwaye kubangela ingxaki engeyomfuneko emzimbeni wakho. Musa ukulahlekelwa yimpilo yakho exabisekileyo ngenxa yezinto ezingeyomfuneko. Kaloku, impilo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo emzimbeni wakho, kwaye ungavumeli izinto ezincinci zenze iimpazamo ezinkulu.
5. Yenza uhlolo rhoqo, kwaye kusekho indawo yonyango kwizigaba zokuqala zezifo ezininzi. Musa ukulibazisa de kungabikho nyango. Umzekelo, ezinye izifo ezinxulumene nomhlaza kufuneka zifunyanwe kwangethuba kwaye zinyangwe kwangethuba.
6. Lungela ngaphambi kokubaleka ukuze uthintele umonakalo entliziyweni ngenxa yomthamo omkhulu wokubaleka. Ukuba ugqiba ixesha lokubaleka, kubalulekile ukugcina impilo entle kwaye unikele ingqalelo kubomi bomzimba ngosuku olungaphambi kwayizolo. Musa ukuvumela ubungakanani bomthambo budlule umthwalo womzimba ukuze uphephe ukufa ngequbuliso okubangelwa kukungakwazi ukuphefumla.
7. Ukubaleka kunokutshisa amafutha emzimbeni wethu kwaye kufezekise injongo yokunciphisa umzimba. Kwabanye abantu abafuna ukuba nemizimba emihle, ukusebenzisa indlela efanelekileyo yokubaleka kunokufezekisa isiphumo sokubumba umzimba.
8. Ukubaleka kunokunyusa amandla ethu okuphila. Ukuba siyaqhubeka nokubaleka, ukunyamezela kwethu kunokusetyenziswa kakhulu, nto leyo eyindlela elungileyo kwabanye abantu abafuna ukunyamezela ngokukhawuleza. Ngelixa kuphucula ukunyamezela, abagijimi bexesha elide baphucula nokuqina komzimba wabo, okubonakala kakhulu kwixesha elifutshane lokuchacha xa kuthelekiswa nomntu oqhelekileyo.
9. Ukubaleka ixesha elide kunokususa iintsholongwane ezithile emizimbeni yethu, kuphucule amasosha omzimba wethu, kukhawulezise ukubuyela emzimbeni, kwaye kuqhelise intliziyo yethu, kukhawulezise ukujikeleza kwegazi, kwaye kuphucule impilo yomzimba.
10. Yonke imidlalo ixatyiswa ngenxa yokunyamezela, kwaye imizamo yexesha elifutshane isenokungenzi mahluko mkhulu, ngoko ke kufuneka siqhubeke nokubaleka. Kwinqanaba lokuqala lokubaleka, akunakuphepheka ukuba ungaziva uxinezelekile. Kaloku, awukaze uziqhelise ngolu hlobo ngaphambili, kodwa emva kwexesha elithile, umzimba wakho uya kuqhelana nobunzima bokubaleka. Ukuba ufuna ukuphishekela ukuphakama okuphezulu, ungawuqinisa umthambo wakho emva kwexesha lokuziqhelanisa, ukuba nje ungaphakathi komlinganiselo ovunyelwe ngumzimba wakho.
Ngamafutshane, ukubaleka ngumdlalo ofanelekileyo kubo bonke ubudala. Abantwana banokukhula babe bade ngokuqhubeka nokubaleka, abantu abaselula banokunciphisa umzimba ngokuqhubeka nokubaleka, kwaye abantu abadala banokuphucula amasosha omzimba wabo kwaye banciphise umngcipheko wokugula ngokuqhubeka nokubaleka. Inqaku elidlulileyo lizise iinkcukacha kunye neenzuzo ezinxulumene nokubaleka. Abo basweleyo banokulandela la manyathelo angentla okubaleka, ukuqhubeka nokubaleka, ukuhlakulela imikhwa yokuzithiba, kunye nokucwangcisa izicwangciso zokubaleka ngokufanelekileyo ukuze imizimba yabo ibe sempilweni.
Ixesha lokuthumela: Meyi-25-2023